>everyone who tells me what I don't want to hear must be a Putinist shill
Problem is that it isn't, the story is bogus.
Putin isn't even using a full quarter of the forces available to him. Why would he need to go, hat in hand, to Xi to beg for more weapons? In addition, the Russians still have good supply lines. The Ukrainians, on the other hand, are completely cut off from reinforcement or escape, and their supply lines are dwindling. This is why they keep asking for NATO to send them MiG-29s or to set up a No Fly Zone.
What that story is is a blatant attempt to get the Chinese to say publicly that they are not supplying the Russians with weapons, in effect disavowing them.
Because their goal isn't to capture territory.
This retired US Army Colonel explains the Russian strategy pretty well - much to the annoyance of the Fox News neocons.
The US, for its own part, knows the Ukrainians are pretty much beaten. But they will continue to send them weapons because their goal here is to 'sacrifice' Ukraine to draw out the conflict and deplete Russian resources. Basically what the CIA did in the Soviet-Afghanistan war