Exactly nigga. I'm tired of listening to incels on the one hand and bitter feminist cat ladies on the other, bitching about how they can't find the partner they want. Yeah, the entire world is lonely right now. We eschew real connections with physical people in exchange for a virtual dopamine fix on social media. Even me talking on this gay board right now is me taking time that I could spend talking to a real person IRL. But I'm autistic and I don't like talking to normies (most of the time,) and I'd rather be lonely than put up with bullshit. So I just have to own it.CuckTurdginson wrote: ↑Wed Jul 16, 2025 3:39 pm(note: everyone is fuckin lonely bc we spend too much time on screens tbh, no one is lonelier than the other)
Every person I've talked to under the age of 40 who I knew long enough for them to be comfortable saying it to me has as much as admitted they're lonely as fuck. The whole world is, unless you live somewhere that's disconnected from social media, the internet and television. Parasocial relationships are the norm. People are striking up "friendships" with AI programs because they're too afraid/averse to real human contact. People watch streamers instead of making real friends. Because hey guess what? Real friendship is hard. And it sucks sometimes. People can be assholes in real life, but your gay parasocial let's player streamer friend will never betray you (because the relationship is fake and doesn't exist.)
Real relationships are work and who the fuck wants to spend their free time doing work? People want the benefits of a real relationship or real friendship but they don't want any of the "work" part of it, where you check in with somebody and genuinely give a shit about their life and how it's going. And hey, if you don't want to deal with other people's bullshit then that's totally fine! But you can't bitch about being lonely.
Incels and femcels both drive me up the fucking wall these days. Too many people out there walking around with unrealistic expectations of life and then getting all buttblasted because they can't find the 10/10 they want. Sure, everybody has a right to their own choices. But if what you're choosing isn't choosing you back then get fucked kid.
